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A little about what's going on in my life ; work and family

I want to talk about an opportunity—an opportunity I’ve found in this job. Yes, it’s a 10-6 routine, but the trust I’ve received from the company goes beyond the usual. They’ve entrusted me with key responsibilities like the hiring process, procurement, and several important projects—tasks I genuinely want to take ownership of. Beyond work itself, there’s the travel. I’ve been traveling across Nepal frequently, which has been refreshing. And at the end of this week, I’m heading to Bangladesh for a few days. The perks? No complaints there. Of course, the weight of these responsibilities might strain my personal relationships, but that’s a price I’m willing to pay to support my family. Speaking of personal life, the topic of marriage has been coming up a lot. I’ve been giving it some thought, and honestly, I think it’s time. If you’re reading this from Nepal, you probably understand what an arranged marriage entails. If not, well—you might want to Google it.

Short reflection on monday mornings

 There is room for improvement and I have to definitely head towards that room, I've been strutting about and relaxing ever since I got the job but that has also made me careless with my money. My money goes away in the blink of an eye and how do you change that ? Growing up I was taught only one thing about money and that was that you have to save it, I don't believe that strongheartedly. To change this I need to invest it in something that is rewarding either financially or socially and now it doesn't go towards either of those things. There are health goals that I want to keep up to and change a few aspects of my lifestyle because I go hard on things that are toxic to me and I've always been about the talk, I need to walk the walk as well.  
 there are things to be said about my friends and lovers, but whom I've loved the most is still far away from me. As she has always been. I cannot fathom the depth of my love for her but to express them to her isn't something i have done. In that, I've been a coward, even though those people of my life might not call it that. I've been fool-hardy, if anything. There is no way I can get away with all these words, if she were the one to see it, but hopefully it will elude her altogether. 

Managing My Money: Lessons from a New Work Chapter

The festivities have come and gone, and I find myself back at home, soaking up the morning sun. The work routine is settling in, with the usual 10-to-6 schedule becoming more familiar by the day. This time around, though, things feel different. I’m learning new skills and approaches compared to my last tenure here. I’m putting more energy into networking with the right people, tackling crucial tasks, and savoring the process along the way. One challenge that stands out is managing my income effectively. I’m determined not to let my money sit idle this time. Financial management will be essential, so I plan to dig into some straightforward money management books. If any of them resonate with me, I’ll share a review here. This step feels necessary, not only to handle personal expenses but also to navigate my work-related finances more smoothly. Work travel has kept me on the move—it’s both invigorating and a bit exhausting. As one month wrapped up, I now find myself in the thick of the s...